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Family Is Helping With the Down Payment. The Lender Needs It in Writing, and Needs It Right.
A gift letter tells the lender who gave the money, how much, and that it never has to be paid back. Get the wording, the sourcing, or the timing wrong and the closing slips. The Harris Firm LLC drafts gift letters to the lender’s requirements and walks families through the paper trail. Phone consultations are free.
Lenders do not object to gifted down payments. They object to money they cannot trace. A gift letter is one page; the documents behind it are the part families get wrong, and a rejected gift package a week before closing is a bad way to learn the rules.
In short: A mortgage gift letter is a signed statement from the donor to the lender identifying the donor, the borrower, their relationship, the amount, the date, the property, and the account the funds came from, and declaring that the money is a gift with no expectation of repayment. Most lenders require their own form, and the underwriter will verify every line.
Who can give: Program rules control. Conventional and FHA loans generally allow gifts from relatives, and in some cases from a fiancé, domestic partner, or close friend with a documented relationship; the seller, the real estate agent, or anyone with an interest in the sale cannot give. VA and USDA loans have their own rules. A gift from a non-qualifying donor is treated as an undisclosed loan.
The paper trail: The lender wants to see the money leave the donor’s account and arrive in the borrower’s, with statements on both sides. Cash is nearly impossible to source. Large deposits without a trail are the most common reason a gift is rejected.
Tax: A gift toward a down payment is a gift for federal purposes. Amounts within the annual exclusion, $19,000 per recipient for 2026, require no return; a larger gift means a Form 709 for the donor, but rarely any tax. The borrower owes nothing.
What the Lender Requires, Line by Line
Every gift letter contains the same elements, and underwriters check each: the donor’s full name, address, and phone; the borrower’s name; the relationship between them; the exact dollar amount; the date the funds were or will be transferred; the address of the property being purchased; the donor’s account from which the gift is drawn; and a statement that the funds are a gift with no repayment expected, express or implied. The donor signs; many lenders want the borrower to sign too. Some require notarization.
Behind the letter sits the sourcing. The lender will ask for the donor’s bank statement showing the funds were available, the transfer record (wire confirmation, cancelled check, or a copy of the check with the deposit slip), and the borrower’s statement showing the deposit. If the donor moved money into their own account shortly before the gift, the lender may ask where that came from too. The cleaner and shorter the trail, the smoother the closing.
Timing matters. Funds gifted well before the application and seasoned in the borrower’s account for two or more statement cycles often need less documentation; funds arriving during underwriting need the full package. Gift funds that go directly to the closing agent at settlement have their own rules. We tell you which path fits and prepare the letter for the lender’s form, since a letter that omits one required element is returned. Our gift transfers page covers the broader planning.
Who Can Give, and What Trips Families Up
Generally Acceptable Donors
- Parents, grandparents, siblings, children, and other relatives by blood, marriage, or adoption.
- A spouse or, under many programs, a fiancé or domestic partner with a documented relationship.
- A close friend with a clearly defined and documented interest in the borrower, under some programs.
- An employer or a charitable organization with a down payment assistance program, under program rules.
- A trust or estate of which the borrower is a beneficiary, with documentation.
Common Rejections
- The seller, builder, real estate agent, or anyone else with a financial interest in the transaction as donor.
- Cash deposits that cannot be traced to the donor’s account.
- A letter that omits the property address, the account, or the no-repayment statement.
- Funds that were actually a loan; lenders find the repayment agreement and the loan is denied.
- Gift funds arriving from an account the donor cannot document.
Program rules change and lenders add their own overlays. We confirm the current requirements with your loan officer before drafting, so the letter matches what the underwriter will actually check.
Tax, Timing, and the Donor’s Side

Gift tax. The donor, not the borrower, is the one with any reporting obligation. A gift within the federal annual exclusion needs no return. A gift above it, say $50,000 from parents toward a first home, requires the donor to file a Form 709 with their tax return, which reduces their lifetime exemption but almost never produces tax. Two parents can each give the exclusion amount to each of two spouses, which covers most down payments with no return at all.
Medicaid. A large gift by an older parent is a gift for Medicaid’s five-year look-back. If the donor may need long-term care within five years, the down payment gift can create a penalty period. The gift is still worth making in many cases, but the family should know before, not after.
Estate planning. A significant gift to one child often should be reflected in the parents’ will as an advance against that child’s share, or explicitly not, so siblings are treated as the parents intend. Our will attorneys add that provision when the gift letter is prepared. A gift affidavit for the family’s records is a good companion to the lender’s letter.
Getting the Gift Letter Right
Usually ready within a day or two, and worth doing before the lender asks rather than after.
Free Phone Consultation
We confirm the donor qualifies under the loan program, check the annual exclusion and any Medicaid issue, and quote a flat fee.
Lender Requirements
We confirm the lender’s form and sourcing requirements with your loan officer, so the package matches what underwriting will check.
Drafting and Signing
The letter drafted with every required element, signed by the donor and borrower as required, notarized where the lender wants it.
The Paper Trail
A checklist of the statements and transfer records the lender needs from both sides, and guidance on timing the transfer so it seasons cleanly.
Mortgage Gift Letters — Frequently Asked Questions
1.What must a mortgage gift letter include?
The donor’s name, address, and phone; the borrower’s name; their relationship; the exact amount; the transfer date; the property address; the donor’s source account; and a statement that the funds are a gift with no repayment expected. The donor signs, often the borrower too, and some lenders require notarization. Most lenders have their own form.
2.Who is allowed to give a down payment gift?
It depends on the loan program. Conventional and FHA loans generally allow relatives, and under many rules a fiancé, domestic partner, or documented close friend. The seller, agent, builder, or anyone with a financial interest in the sale cannot. VA and USDA have their own rules. We confirm with your loan officer before drafting.
3.Does the lender need to see where the gift money came from?
Yes. Expect to provide the donor’s bank statement showing the funds, the transfer record, and the borrower’s statement showing the deposit. Cash is nearly impossible to source. Undocumented deposits are the most common reason a gift package is rejected.
4.Does the donor have to pay gift tax?
Rarely. Gifts within the federal annual exclusion, $19,000 per recipient for 2026 and double from a married couple, require no return. Larger gifts require the donor to file a Form 709, which reduces their lifetime exemption but almost never produces tax. The borrower owes nothing. Alabama has no gift tax.
5.Can the gift be a loan we plan to repay quietly?
No. The letter is a representation to a federally regulated lender that no repayment is expected. If repayment is actually intended, it is a loan, it belongs on the application as debt, and calling it a gift is mortgage fraud. If the family wants repayment, we prepare a promissory note and the lender underwrites it as a loan.
6.What does a gift letter cost at The Harris Firm LLC?
It is a flat fee, quoted at your free phone consultation, and includes confirming the lender’s requirements and the sourcing checklist. In-person consultations are $100.
Get the Gift Letter Right the First Time. Free Phone Consultation.
One free call confirms the donor qualifies, flags any tax or Medicaid issue, and quotes the flat fee for the letter and the paper-trail checklist.
Our Gift Letter Service Includes
✓ Donor eligibility check under the loan program
✓ Letter drafted to the lender’s form with every required element
✓ Sourcing and seasoning checklist for both sides
✓ Notarized signing where the lender requires it
✓ Annual exclusion and Form 709 guidance for the donor
✓ Coordination with the family’s will where the gift is an advance
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