Spring is all about fresh starts, and for many people, that includes finally moving forward with a long-considered divorce. If you’re standing at the edge of that decision, it can feel overwhelming. With the right preparation, you can approach the process feeling clear, calm, and empowered. At the Harris Firm, we’ve helped thousands of people across Alabama take that first step. If divorce is on your horizon this spring, here are the top five things you can do now to set yourself up for success. 
1. Get Clear on Your Priorities
Before filing, take time to reflect on what matters to you. Is it protecting your time with your children? Keeping the house? Financial stability? Peace of mind?
Knowing your non-negotiables helps you:
- Stay focused when emotions run high
- Make informed decisions
- Communicate clearly with your attorney
Pro tip: Write down your top three priorities. Keep them close—they’ll guide every choice you make.
2. Gather Financial Documents
Divorce involves dividing assets and debts, so having your financial picture ready to go will save time and stress. Start collecting:
- Tax returns (last 2-3 years)
- Pay stubs and income info
- Bank account and credit card statements
- Mortgage info
- Retirement account statements
If you can access it now, do it before things get complicated.
3. Create a Budget for Life After Divorce
This part can feel a little scary, but it’s essential. Understand your current expenses and what your financial reality might look like post-divorce.
Ask yourself:
- What do I need to maintain a safe, stable life?
- Will I need child support or alimony?
- Can I afford to keep the house, or is it smarter to sell?
Budgeting now = clarity later.
4. Think Through Custody & Parenting Plans
If you have children, you’ll need to propose a parenting plan that outlines:
- Physical and legal custody
- Weekly schedules
- Holidays and vacations
- Communication expectations
Judges in Alabama want to see plans that put the child’s best interests first. Coming in with thoughtful, child-centered ideas shows that you’re focused and prepared.
5. Schedule a Consultation with a Divorce Attorney
Even if you’re not 100% ready to file, meeting with a family law attorney gives you clarity and power. A good lawyer will explain:
- Your rights under Alabama law
- Whether your divorce may be uncontested or contested
- What steps you are able to take now to protect yourself
You don’t have to have all the answers. Just take that first step. The right legal team will help with the rest.
Spring Is a New Beginning. Start It with Strength!
Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic or scary. With the right mindset and preparation, this spring can mark the start of a stronger, more grounded version of your life.
At the Harris Firm, we’re here to guide you through it all with compassion, clarity, and confidence. Whether you’re just beginning to consider divorce or you’re ready to file, we’ll help you move forward with peace of mind.
Ready to take the first step? Let’s talk.
Attorney Steven A. Harris regularly blogs in the areas of family law, bankruptcy, probate, and real estate closings on this website. Mr. Harris tries to provide informative information to the public in easily digestible formats. Hopefully you enjoyed this article and feel free to supply feedback. We appreciate our readers & love to hear from you!